damien lu ： ...
opo (先生) ：
damien lu ：
我认识40岁以上不结婚、没有孩子，但活的很好的同志。他们为什么有生存空间？因为他们会给自己选择、制造空间，而不是找借口去伤害别人。
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could you give us an example to show us how to live a decent life being single in china as a gay man? especially how to 选择、制造空间? we believe it is kind of mission impossible, isn't it?
damien lu ：
of course it's not mission impossible, because any people are living such lives. it's not my opinion, it's a fact. besides, there are also many who are not single because they live with their same sex partner. i know people in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who are living with long term same sex partners, all over china.