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rocky (先生) ：
hey,star first time to write to you,i often read your message on this website,thanks i have a question,i often go to some gay sex places in chicago and have sex with white or black guys,i know that is not a good way,but i just can't help it,but one thing i have always keep in mind,that is ,i never have any annal sex without condoms,but i often do suck without condoms,sometime i ask other guys why they just dont care to have condoms when doing suck,all of them think that suck is safe,is that true,i am little bit worried by the way,where are you,i want to meet you in person,is that possible,lol waiting for your reply,thanks and take care
damien lu ：
the most risky sexual behavior is to have
anonymous sex with multiple sex partners. that is
exactly what you are doing. you belong to the
very high risk group for hiv infection.
oral sex without condom is not completely safe.
each time you do it, you put yourself at great
risk.
you need to be examined for sexually transmitted
diseases (hiv/aids is not the only one you should
be concerned about). you should also get some
psychological help. men who engaged in anonymous
and risky sexual behavior often have problems
such as low self esteem, etc..